Have time for your family: You will be surprised that most men are too busy chasing money and trying to deal with day to day life while their families needs their attention. How can you say you are a king of a Kingdom that you don't spend your time there?. I see most men that would rather spend time in a bar with friends instead of trying to be home early to check on their families.
Be creative and a mentor: Your family is your responsibility. You need to find ways and means to cheer everyone up. Taking your family on a vacation is one of the best ways to show them that in deed you have them on your mind. Sitting around them and listening to your kids, talking to each one of them, encouraging them in everything they go through in their daily life means a lot. Your wife needs to see some level of brilliancy in you. Appreciating her on how nice she has been and reminding her that she is still a great woman in your life would be a good thing.
Learn to solve your problems: As the man of the house you are faced with so many challenges. So many things would happen sometimes that you never expected them to happen. Most men make it a mistake by categorising their wives in the same class with their kid(s). No matter how foolish, poor or ugly your wife looks, she remains to be your wife and a mother to your kid(s). If you feel that something is not right find time away from the kids and teach her how to do it. It's good to teach someone what needs to be done when they do mistakes than to blame them.
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